How Can I Manage Aggressive Behaviour in My Child?
What causes aggression in children?
Aggression is often a sign of unmet emotional needs. It can stem from frustration, anxiety, sensory issues, or a response to changes at home or school. According to YoungMinds, it's essential to look behind the behaviour to understand the cause.
What does aggressive behaviour look like?
Verbal outbursts or shouting
Hitting, kicking, or damaging property
Defiance and argumentativeness
How should I respond in the moment?
Stay calm: Speak slowly and clearly.
Set firm, clear boundaries: Explain expectations and consequences.
De-escalate first, discuss later: Save explanations for when they’re calm.
How can I help prevent outbursts?
Establish routines, especially during transitions.
Teach emotional language: “Are you feeling frustrated, angry, or hurt?”
Use positive reinforcement to praise calm behaviour.
When should I seek additional help?
If aggression is putting your child or others at risk, or affecting learning, contact your GP or school. Behavioural support, CAMHS referrals, or family therapy may be recommended.
Top Tips for Parents
Address patterns, not just incidents.
Model calm responses during stress.
Build your child’s emotional vocabulary.
How can GTG Educate help?
We are trained to create calm, respectful learning environments. We provide consistent structure and tailored strategies to help children learn self-regulation and express themselves constructively.
